Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Our Daily Routines

I'm a stickler when it comes to having predictable routines. I strongly believe that having a routine that everybody can predict makes the days easier on everybody. Please keep in mind that a routine is very different from a schedule. I think of a schedule as something you must follow so as not to go off course. Schedules are dictated by specific times of day, and restrict activities (such as creative play) or necessities (such as potty time) to a certain amount of time. Routines, on the other hand, suggest a flow from one part of the day to the next. It's an order in which things happen. Without a routine, activities and programming is unpredictable.

As I've said (some things are just worth repeating), I'm a stickler when it comes to having a routine. I insist that each day begin and end in the same way. Of course, I must always be flexible. Life would be boring if I insisted on a stringent A, then B, then C routine. Not only boring, but impossible. I like to plan some variation in our weeks now and then. In fact, I'm hoping the summer will be filled with variations - such as going for walks, visits to the park and library, etc.

But, predictable routines are easy to jump into or out of when needed.

So, I know you're just dying to know what the routine is like around here, aren't you? Well, you are in luck...

Start of day:Explore the living room. During this time, I try to find some "different" or "favorite" toys to keep the children's attention for a while. This is the time of day when we are all just trying to wake up and get going.

Morning Routine: We move down to the playroom, where we sign and rehearse many of the things we've been learning. For a while, it was the parts of the calendar (including the 7 days of the week, 12 months of year, etc.) and then it was reciting the Lord's Prayer, and then it was a song called "The Seven Day of of Creation" ...and these days, we just kinda do the alphabet, numbers, opposites, colors, and whatever else we dream up. It's a fun time for everyone who wants to join us. Nobody is required to sit and play in this way - the kiddos are free to roam about the playroom if they wish.

Care routines and Morning Snack: When we're done having casual conversations after our little "circle time," we go to our care routines... going potty, washing hands, cleaning the table. I serve snack, we say a quick prayer, and the kiddos munch. :) Even the babies are in on this part, now - as their feeding routines fall right into place with our morning snack time!

Creative Play: After snack, we wash up and then head back down to the playroom for creative play. This is the time when we are pretending or painting or coloring or dramatizing, or doing anything else that is fun and inclusive! This summer, this will be the time when we enjoy summery things - like pool time and walks to the park. Horray for warm weather!

Outside Play: Usually by now, the babies are wiped out and are ready for a morning nap. So, the bigger kiddos and I (and even the babies, if they don't wanna sleep) head outside for some fun in the sun! I strongly feel that children need to be outdoors every day, regardless of weather conditions. Unless, OF COURSE, it's below freezing out, or tornado-ey or soaking wet rainy/muddy, etc. :) My point is, fresh air is good, and good is fun. We even went out in the snow once to catch snowflakes on our tongues. Even if outside time only amounts to 5 minutes, it's worth the trouble of getting everybody out.

Group Play/Lunch fixin: At this point, we go with the flow and hang out upstairs while I fix lunch. The girls are usually in Julia's room with the Barbies or little people - Noah and Rebecca are roaming the hardwood floors, enjoying their own play time.

Care routines and lunch: The girls are so good when it's time to clean up. They love to hurry and clean quickly so they can surprise me by saying "the rooms already cleaned up!" (I will go see the room and have a big dramatic smile and say "oh my goodness! How did you get this cleaned up so fast!? .... it never gets old). Then, we go potty, wash hands, and sit down for lunch. As luck would have it, the babies are usually hungry again by now, too! So, we all eat together as a "family." I love it.

Care routines and Storytime: The deal is that you are asked to stay at the table until everybody is done eating. (This way there's no rush or "competition" to get done first.) Then, the older kiddos take their plates to the sink, put their cups in the fridge, and then head to the bathroom, where we wash up, brush teeth, and go potty once again if needed. When they are done with these tasks, they always go to Julia's room and pick a book to look at until I meet them in there for story time. They are so good about quietly "reading" books to themselves while I'm cleaning up from lunch and helping the babies get washed up. :) This is probably my favorite part of the day. I enjoy reading two books - one that Savannah picks out, and one that Julia picks out. Soon enough, it will be three - one for Noah!

Naptime: When the books are done, everybody gets a quick hug and then they go to their beds. I turn on music in everybody's rooms and tell them goodnight. The girls almost always fall asleep immediately! This is my much deserved break time. I usually spend nap time chilling out with the babies - or, if they sleep too, I'll read a magazine or catch up on other cleaning that needs done.

Care routines and afternoon snack: After nap, we go potty, wash hands, and have our snack. On nice days, we like to eat snack outside!

Outside Play: Honestly, by the time everybody wakes up, I'm missing the kiddos so much and they sleep for so long! So, I'm usually the one with the MOST energy during afternoon play time. I tend to get really silly and have lots of fun!

Music and Dance: When it gets close to pick-up time, we like to come inside and wait for moms and dads in the living room. We usually have the music on and get to "free dance." The girls are learning to dance with each other now-a-days (instead of off doing their own things separately) and Noah has some great rhythm!

So there you have it - a summarized look at our day. Don't you wish you could play with us?



1 comment:

noahsmom said...

Thanks so much for publishing this. It's so nice to know what you're doing and when. It's a fabulous routine. I wish I was that organized!!